Today I had the opportunity to volunteer for the Charlottesville-Albemarle Technical Education Center to discuss various aspects of my career in Information Technology to 10th graders. It was great fun, but for kicks I thought I might as well write up what I shared. In this way I’ll suspend one of my rules about not blogging directly about my work.
A key theme, or take away, was that I never could have predicted my current life and profession sixteen years ago when I was in 10th grade. Way back in 1990 the Soviet Union was still a country, I was a 10th grader and dinosaurs roamed the earth, or so it would seem. When I wasn’t looking, I became old. My job today didn’t exist then, and I’m certain that today’s 10th grader is best served by looking for “upwind”, as Paul Graham states it. Some knowledge and experience opens more doors than others.
The work I do as a Project Manager is mostly as a translator. Professors speculate about how software could provide new insights into electronic-based literature and I mediate these explanations into software development lingo. In truth, the developers and professors work closely together, but I take on the role of the least specialized person in the room to ask pointed questions which make me confident in producing the right software. I also maintain the schedule, but like all good things, it is collaborative. Requirements come from professors, time commitments to deliver come from developers and I try to assure that it all makes sense.
Frankly, some days I think I suck at it and other days it flows. Sometimes I’m overwhelmed and sometimes I feel like a third wheel, as if everyone but me has something useful to do. Such is the nature of being “overhead”, but it is truly the most interesting work I’ve ever done and I’m amazed that I get paid to have this much fun.
That aside, I shared some worthwhile life-lessons with the crowd:
- Pick your friends, don’t let them pick you. Your social network is a powerful force to uplift or pull you down, but the former tends to only happen if you are willing to shake off some steerage. Cruel, but true. I firmly believe that many social ills could be eliminated if people rebuffed social parasites — those people who seek out the lonely, insecure and needy to fulfill their selfish intentions.
- Write. Get a blog, write a letter to the editor and generally volunteer to write at any opportunity you get.
- A college education is a door pass, in many respects, but learning is a life-long pursuit.
- When life pushes you around, push back. Don’t presume that anything is non-negotiable, the price is final or a variety of other tactics which encourage you to react with emotions instead of intellect.
- Sell yourself. Most jobs are not advertised, as such. The first people to know about an opportunity are the ones who have made worthwhile business deals in the past.
- If the above sounds like a catch-22, the good news is that older people genuinely want to help younger people who have their heads on straight. Ask someone 20 years your senior for advice or to watch out for an opportunity and they will likely lend a hand if they sense that you won’t embarrass them.
- Distrust the crowd a little. I’m reminded of a story about Rockefeller, who in roaring 20’s was making small-talk with an elevator operator about investing and was shocked to find that he held the same securities. He promptly sold his holdings and averted a good portion of the 1929 crash. I don’t mean to impugn the judgement of the common man, but it is not possible (for very long, at least) to do common things and get uncommon results.
Anyhow, that is the measure of my wisdom for today’s youth. I can’t really say what someone should do to have a fulfilling career 15 years from today, but I can say with confidence what they shouldn’t do. Trite as it may sound: Don’t do drugs, stay in school, don’t rush into marriage and family and it just might work out well in the end.